Fun — the best hygiene of soul and a body.
(George Sand)
For me the best medicine for bad mood are my children. Whatever happens, they force me to smile. And together with this smile the sensation of happiness comes back. Despite of everything.
And still I admire in the mornings on the sleeping beauties. I admire and feel, how my day wonderfully thus begins. It is cheered up, it would be desirable to rejoice lives and to make great affairs. All world turns to me the person.
I have decided, that my problem — to make so that day of my children too began with a smile. And it is even better — from laughter. The senior daughter one, younger absolutely can make laugh another. To tickle or something to tell — I necessarily I do so that since the morning in a nursery the laughter already sounded. (…)
The senior child — all the same still the child
It is published: 08-10-2008Headings: 2-godki, education, mamskoe
Growing - devilishly difficult piece.
It is much easier to pass from one childhood in another.
(Frensis Scott Fitzgerald)
As soon as in a family there is a second child, the first-born becomes at once the senior. Against the newborn parents and associates involuntarily perceive the first-born as more adult and independent. Even if the age difference makes only one and a half-two year.
Alas, it so. I, for example, do not represent, that my senior daughter in 2,5 years went on walk to park on foot. Younger, in it 2,5 I drive there only on a carriage. After all it so is far! And so almost in all.
There are in such “effect of a fast growing” pluses. Senior children, as a rule, are more developed, responsible, independent, organizovanny.
There are also minuses in the form of uneasiness concerning that now parents love younger more, insults, jealousy.
What it is possible to make, that all were happy? (…)
Imagination when its pictures are bright,
Operates on feelings with the big energy.
(N. G.Chernyshevsky)
One of ways cheerfully and with advantage to communicate to the child during house affairs — to play in "dorisovochki".
The most simple variant of game for a two: everyone thinks of an animal. Then one person draws a head of this animal and puts a leaflet so that the neck was visible only. The second player draws a trunk of that animal which was conceived by him from a neck. (…)
Possible sorrows to transform
In pleasure — means to be able to live.
As though we tried to agree and understand each other,
Partings and losses all the same happen.
— In any way I will not learn an average daughter to rejoice to a departing ball, — the girlfriend, naimudrejshaja the woman, mum of three daughters tells to me, — And after all it it is necessary to be able. Necessarily!
Ball, it as the man. (…)
Children's presentations: safety precautions
It is published: 19-09-2008Headings: the computer, mamskoe, presentations, development
The present progress of mankind depends not so much on an innovative mind,
How many from consciousness.
(Albert Einstein)
Children's presentations become very popular tutorial and developments. On the Internet there are whole banks of children's presentations. Bright pictures, the amusing sounds, repetition favourite by children same, possibility to leave the child behind the computer and to do the affairs — pluses much. There are also unconditional minuses.
How to find a golden mean and not to do much harm to the kid? It is a question not of harm from sitting behind the computer, and how it is possible to do much harm, having gone too far with presentations. (…)
Children can and not reach wished,
But on a way to it it is all the same reached much.
The child wishes to learn, try, study something new. Itself. Let tries, let studies. The problem of parents in this case — not to stir, not to criticise, not to climb with uninvited councils and the help.
And if your child wishes to learn something such where most not to understand in any way? Then the best way — to do together.
To DO and TOGETHER. (…)
The care of health is a technology of restriction of risk.
Soon there will come colds, viruses, a flu, treatment and other traditional winter "pleasures". It is time to think of all it already now.
Certainly, to think about health and methods of its preservation it is necessary always, but to write about it today me has forced performance of the nurse at parental meeting in a kindergarten. (…)
In a duty married couple should be divided: It protects It from meetings with an external world, which to It not on forces; It reconciles It with herself when He in razdrae and cannot understand, that with It, to be defined as It of to conduct.
It operates with the determination and sequence. It operates with the acceptance, the trust.
Without one there will be no another. And everyone becomes pledge of harmony and intelligence of a life for another.
From zhzh
Want, that there were good children —
Be happy.
Be broken off on a part,
Use all talents, abilities,
Involve your friends familiar,
But be happy the present human happiness.
A.S.Makarenko
About replacement strict it "IS impossible"
It is published: 05-08-2008Headings: education, mamskoe
All education of children consists of two cores composed. First, this gold rule “encouragement good — ignoring undesirable”. And in the second, the rule strict and not discussed is impossible.
It is impossible in a life of the child — a word important. But thus chastoispolzuemoe. And from it it loses the importance. How to be? (…)
Whether you play with children during walk? Or simply stand aside, watch the child and shout “do not run! Accurately! You will fall!”
Try to put on convenient footwear-clothes and too to gambol on a platform. To play in football, to run about in dogonjalki on children's small town, to drive on roundabouts, polazit on short flights of stairs, to arrange with all children game “in pirates” or simply to be shaken on a swing “to the sky”. (…)
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