Children can and not reach wished,
But on a way to it it is all the same reached much.
The child wishes to learn, try, study something new. Itself. Let tries, let studies. The problem of parents in this case — not to stir, not to criticise, not to climb with uninvited councils and the help.
And if your child wishes to learn something such where most not to understand in any way? Then the best way — to do together.
To DO and TOGETHER.
Not to explain, not to tell, not to do most „here now I I will make, and you while look”.
And at once to operate. To impose the theory on practice, to explain therein.
Example: „Mum, I wish to sew to a doll a dress, but only I do not know as. You will learn me?”
As it is not necessary to do. It is not necessary to TELL that sew a sharp needle, and cut sharp scissors. It is not necessary to say that it difficult and it is necessary to learn still. It is not necessary to cut off at once wings the explanations. From them the child can draw a conclusion, that all so is serious and difficult, that to it and to try it is not necessary.
And to try costs. It is necessary to DO that wanted at once.
„Perfectly! And from what fabric we will sew?” Go together to shop (or get into a chest with stocks). And let the child will choose a fabric.
And then will think up what to sew.
And raskroit itself (let at first it will be curve and unsuccessful, anything).
Also sews let itself. With your unostentatious help and explanations where well it is completely not clear. Not lectures, namely explanatories.
And the child himself will see a sharp needle and scissors therein. And itself will understand, that with them it is necessary to address accurately.
That it turned out — it is necessary to want and do,
That it was impossible — it is necessary to tell about how the different reasons can (purely theoretically) to prevent to realise dreams.
Learn it children. On own example, instead of in words.
Other thoughts apropos:
Self-trust (it is developed on a parrot example)
The most effective method of education
Children - our mirror
On traces Ratatuja
