In a duty married couple should be divided: It protects It from meetings with an external world, which to It not on forces; It reconciles It with herself when He in razdrae and cannot understand, that with It, to be defined as It of to conduct.
It operates with the determination and sequence. It operates with the acceptance, the trust.
Without one there will be no another. And everyone becomes pledge of harmony and intelligence of a life for another.
From zhzh
Want, that there were good children —
Be happy.
Be broken off on a part,
Use all talents, abilities,
Involve your friends familiar,
But be happy the present human happiness.
A.S.Makarenko
Role of the woman and the man in a family
It is published: 11-12-2007Headings: a coin box of knowledge, m+f
The woman is not factory on manufacture of cutlets, she should create atmosphere in the house.
The woman – factory on happiness manufacture.
And the man – the director of this factory, the expert in marketing, snabzhenets, the manager on public relations, the marksman of protection and the head of amateur performances.
(c) Leonid Zharov
Female faces - eyes of the man
It is published: 21-11-2007Headings: ladies', a coin box of knowledge, m+f
It. It already was once, very long time ago.
She breathed same air, looked in the same party, the same eyes.
She was silent, when I was silent, she was ill, when I was ill, she sang, when I sang … not instead of … and at all together.
It was me, a part me.
I did not notice its presence as you do not notice the pulse or breath. When she gave birth, I howled from a pain.
When it did not become here – there was no also I too …
But nearby there was a Life for which I answered … and I remained to live here.
Emptiness, black hole sucks in and draws to itself everything, that to it comes nearer … And they came nearer, other Women in my life.
The woman-cat. (…)
The reference of the child to the adult
It is published: 16-11-2007Headings: a coin box of knowledge, mamskoe
Than to the sermon to listen, to me is better to look.
And it is better to spend me, than to specify me a way.
Eye it is cleverer than hearing — will understand all without effort.
Words at times are confused, an example — never.
That best preacher who has spent belief in a life.
Kindly to see in operation — here best of schools.
And if all to me to tell, I will learn a lesson.
But me the movement of hands, than fast words a stream is clearer.
Should be, it is possible to trust and clever slovesam.
But I will better have a look, that you do.
Suddenly I will misunderstand fine your council.
But I will understand as you you live: under the truth or not.
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I do not know - who the author. On the Internet it much where is published.
Jury's extraordinary simple and wise words Levitansky.
Everyone chooses for itself(himself)
The woman, religion, road.
To devil to serve or to the prophet -
Everyone chooses for itself(himself).Everyone chooses on itself(himself)
Word for love and for a pray.
Sword for duel, a sword for fight
Everyone chooses on itself(himself).Everyone chooses on itself(himself)
Board and armour, staff and patches.
Measure of definitive payment
Everyone chooses on itself(himself).Everyone chooses for itself(himself).
I choose too - as I am able.
To anybody no claims I have.
Everyone chooses for itself(himself).
If everyone could so to say about itself(himself) - in the world would become much more love, understanding and kindness.
The internal confidence will give to all of us
It is published: 11-11-2007Headings: a coin box of knowledge
In the country long there was no rain, crops perish, the cattle gets thin, the rivers melejut - a trouble.
Parishioners of one temple have decided to gather and pray for a rain.
Prayed devoutly, with all the heart. Left a temple - a rain and is not present. - As so? - Parishioners of the priest - we have asked so prayed, and the rain is not present.
- Yes, you prayed, but without absolute belief. Because any of you, going here, has not grasped with itself an umbrella …
I study even more often to take such "umbrella". (It does not concern prays, religiousness.)
It is simply absolute internal confidence - "RAIN". And it necessarily goes.
Lesson vzaimoponimaja M and
It is published: 29-10-2007Headings: ladies', a coin box of knowledge, m+f
Translate me. The instructive story Ales the Bar-jaalom.
High contracting parties have taken seat on both ends of a table, and between them an imperceptible shade the translator has settled down. All were silent.
The first It has begun.
– I love you.
(…)
Veins - there was one very temperamental boy who often splashed out the negative emotions on close people.
And here once the father has given it a sack with nails and has punished each time when the boy will not constrain the anger, to hammer one nail into a fence column.
In the first day 37 nails have been hammered into a column.
The boy tried to constrain the anger, and the number of nails hammered into a column began to decrease every day.
The boy has understood, that it is easier to supervise the anger and not to shout in vain at close people, than to drive in nails.
At last day when the boy has never lost self-controls has come. Also has not hammered in any nail.
The father has listened to the joyful story of the son and has punished henceforth to pull out on one nail every time when the son will constrain the anger and will not splash out it on others.
And here day when the boy has informed the father that in a column does not remain any nail has come.
Then the father took the son for a hand and has brought to a fence:
“You have consulted with the anger, the sonny. But look - how many in a fence of holes? It already never will be such as before. When you speak to the person something malicious, it still has same scar, as well as these holes.
And it is not important, how many time after that you will apologise - the scar remains.
Verbal scar same painful, as well as physical.
Not too it is a lot of at us in a life of rather close people - which are able to dispel your bad mood, accept you any, understand you and help a difficult minute. They are ready to listen to you and to open to you the heart. Protect it and do not do vain scars. ”
Study at children in the main thing
It is published: 07-10-2007Headings: education, a coin box of knowledge, mamskoe
The child can learn the adult to three things:
To rejoice for no reason at all,
Always to find to itself employment
And to insist on the.
Paulo Koelo
When you come — bow.
When you leave — say goodbye.
When you dare — fasten.
When has solved — do not doubt.
Words of my old-kind friend Rothschild
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