Fun — the best hygiene of soul and a body.
(George Sand)
For me the best medicine for bad mood are my children. Whatever happens, they force me to smile. And together with this smile the sensation of happiness comes back. Despite of everything.
And still I admire in the mornings on the sleeping beauties. I admire and feel, how my day wonderfully thus begins. It is cheered up, it would be desirable to rejoice lives and to make great affairs. All world turns to me the person.
I have decided, that my problem — to make so that day of my children too began with a smile. And it is even better — from laughter. The senior daughter one, younger absolutely can make laugh another. To tickle or something to tell — I necessarily I do so that since the morning in a nursery the laughter already sounded. (…)
The senior child — all the same still the child
It is published: 08-10-2008Headings: 2-godki, education, mamskoe
Growing - devilishly difficult piece.
It is much easier to pass from one childhood in another.
(Frensis Scott Fitzgerald)
As soon as in a family there is a second child, the first-born becomes at once the senior. Against the newborn parents and associates involuntarily perceive the first-born as more adult and independent. Even if the age difference makes only one and a half-two year.
Alas, it so. I, for example, do not represent, that my senior daughter in 2,5 years went on walk to park on foot. Younger, in it 2,5 I drive there only on a carriage. After all it so is far! And so almost in all.
There are in such “effect of a fast growing” pluses. Senior children, as a rule, are more developed, responsible, independent, organizovanny.
There are also minuses in the form of uneasiness concerning that now parents love younger more, insults, jealousy.
What it is possible to make, that all were happy? (…)
Possible sorrows to transform
In pleasure — means to be able to live.
As though we tried to agree and understand each other,
Partings and losses all the same happen.
— In any way I will not learn an average daughter to rejoice to a departing ball, — the girlfriend, naimudrejshaja the woman, mum of three daughters tells to me, — And after all it it is necessary to be able. Necessarily!
Ball, it as the man. (…)
Children can and not reach wished,
But on a way to it it is all the same reached much.
The child wishes to learn, try, study something new. Itself. Let tries, let studies. The problem of parents in this case — not to stir, not to criticise, not to climb with uninvited councils and the help.
And if your child wishes to learn something such where most not to understand in any way? Then the best way — to do together.
To DO and TOGETHER. (…)
About replacement strict it "IS impossible"
It is published: 05-08-2008Headings: education, mamskoe
All education of children consists of two cores composed. First, this gold rule “encouragement good — ignoring undesirable”. And in the second, the rule strict and not discussed is impossible.
It is impossible in a life of the child — a word important. But thus chastoispolzuemoe. And from it it loses the importance. How to be? (…)
Whether you play with children during walk? Or simply stand aside, watch the child and shout “do not run! Accurately! You will fall!”
Try to put on convenient footwear-clothes and too to gambol on a platform. To play in football, to run about in dogonjalki on children's small town, to drive on roundabouts, polazit on short flights of stairs, to arrange with all children game “in pirates” or simply to be shaken on a swing “to the sky”. (…)
On traces Ratatuja
It is published: 04-06-2008Headings: education, mamskoe, hand-made articles, development, we study playing
The child has wanted to cook food itself. At us this impulse has happened after an animated cartoon "Ratatuj" in which the rat-gourmet does improbable vkusnosti.
What to do? To praise, help with products, to give free rain, not to prevent and to praise sincerely again.
Namely:
To give for cooking those products which cannot be spoilt. As though them not to mix — it will turn out it is tasty and edible. To make so it is necessary not because it will be a pity spoilt. That is why, that the first rebyonkin independent experience of cooking should to be successful necessarily. (…)
… to the child for full and harmonious development of its person
It is necessary to grow in a family environment,
In atmosphere of happiness, love and understanding.
The international convention on the rights of the child
From whom and from what it is necessary to protect children?
From immorality, drugs, violence, mass-media, computers, advertising, officials, schools, cruelty, indifference …
Infinite and absolutely fair list. And actually, to protect children it is necessary from unreasonable parents. (…)
What for to drive the child in library?
It is published: 26-05-2008Headings: education, mamskoe, development, a theme of day, reading
On May, 27th the All-Russia day of libraries is celebrated.
Children and library — the next disputable theme.
It is necessary or is not necessary? Interestingly or boringly? Library — smother a drugstore or gos.rezerv combustible materials? Books or the Internet? …
It is a lot of questions, and unequivocal answers are not present.
I consider, that children should be acquainted with libraries. And to do it parents, instead of gardens and schools should. (…)
Museum and children — a theme of day not only on May, 18th
It is published: 18-05-2008Headings: education, mamskoe, development, a theme of day
Museum and children. Unfortunately, today it is less popular theme, than “the Internet and children”. Campaigns in a museum involve children ever less. Especially it concerns teenagers. Very often museum for them is an alien, boring, sad, old-fashioned world. Alas.
On May, 18th the international day of museums is celebrated. A remarkable occasion to reduce the child in a museum and to spend interesting day.
With what to begin acquaintance to museums? (…)
Hand-made articles: a gun-neigrushka
It is published: 15-05-2008Headings: education, mamskoe, hand-made articles
In target children with the daddy built a gun of a lighter and a jar from a film. Shot on balls and targets. Also have simply got acquainted with the present loud “Bach!” (…)
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