About replacement strict it "IS impossible"
It is published: 05-08-2008Headings: education, mamskoe
All education of children consists of two cores composed. First, this gold rule “encouragement good — ignoring undesirable”. And in the second, the rule strict and not discussed is impossible.
It is impossible in a life of the child — a word important. But thus chastoispolzuemoe. And from it it loses the importance. How to be?
Magazines, sites, articles and techniques shout that since the earliest childhood in a life of the child there should be a limited quantity strict it is impossible.
That is dangerous is impossible only. A plate, road, sockets, etc. the Rest should go flying the flag it "IS not necessary". It is not necessary to litter. It is not necessary to spill milk on a floor. It is not dangerous to a life and health, therefore to do such not that that it is impossible, but it is not necessary is better. It is not desirable.
But alas. Our education and the developed speech standards mean frequent and universal use of a word it "is impossible". And even if parents use it seldom and on business, around many other people who will by all means tell “It is impossible to jump on pools!” And at the child in a head porridge from such inconsistent interdictions will turn out.
What to do? I by itself had use of a word of FEET. Loudly and sharply. Operates immediately and smoothly. As soon as children hear from me sharp “STOP!”, they stop as driven. Cease to do that did. Roads cease to run aside, to get into the water to another's cows, to steal up with a plug to the socket, to push a cat in mikrovolnovku.
Why STOP?
- The word of FEET is clear for the child.
- It is used in surrounding daily speech seldom.
- Even at use NOT in case of danger it always means that means — stop!
- And still it is more audible, than dim it "IS impossible".
I advise to all.
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