The senior child — all the same still the child
It is published: 08-10-2008Headings: 2-godki, education, mamskoe
Growing - devilishly difficult piece.
It is much easier to pass from one childhood in another.
(Frensis Scott Fitzgerald)
As soon as in a family there is a second child, the first-born becomes at once the senior. Against the newborn parents and associates involuntarily perceive the first-born as more adult and independent. Even if the age difference makes only one and a half-two year.
Alas, it so. I, for example, do not represent, that my senior daughter in 2,5 years went on walk to park on foot. Younger, in it 2,5 I drive there only on a carriage. After all it so is far! And so almost in all.
There are in such “effect of a fast growing” pluses. Senior children, as a rule, are more developed, responsible, independent, organizovanny.
There are also minuses in the form of uneasiness concerning that now parents love younger more, insults, jealousy.
What it is possible to make, that all were happy? (…)
Age difference 2 years - the beginning of a joint life
It is published: 16-01-2008Headings: 2-godki, education, mamskoe
So, in a family the second kid was born. Thus the "senior" child too still absolutely small - to it about two years.
How to lay the foundation for strong and friendly relations between children? How not to provoke jealousy and eternal competitive struggle for a place under the sun?
My councils from own successful experience - for the first days and months of a "joint" life: (…)
Age difference 2 years - main principles of education
It is published: 28-11-2007Headings: 2-godki, education, mamskoe
Dialogue of children-2godok at last becomes equal in rights only in couple of years of their joint life - when younger 2, and to the senior 4. By this time it becomes much easier to parents to bring up children, and easier to live with them.
Experience of education of mine 2годок for today the such: (…)
The further, the I rejoice to a difference in 2 years at my children more.
I do not apply what such difference - the best, and simply I tell about the podozhitelnom experience.
At pregnancy with a break in 2 years it is a lot of pluses:
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